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Women..girls..it's so annoying when Black guys complain about black girls. They say stuff like typical black girl..ratchet ect. Like did you forget your African American too ? Why stay with a black girl and complain then. 
I also feel like older guys do the same thing to younger girls. Your a kid..little girl ect. But they chose to be in a relationship with you that's dumb. The worst part is they're the one that acts immature.

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Yes! Yes! Yes! I hate when black men say they don't like black girls, or say that black girls are too "ghetto". As if their mothers, aunts and sisters, that they call beautiful, aren't the same race as the women they're calling ratchet??? Like I understand having a preference, but to have a generalized idea of all black females is pretty disrespectful.

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I agree 100% 
I feel like society has brainwashed some of our men to hate us. Unfortunately it's way deeper than what it appears to be. but yes how can you claim to hate black women or think every black woman is ghetto or whatever but your mother the very person who raised you and brought you here is a black woman. I will never understand.. as a matter of fact I understand it I just don't respect it, and I refuse to accept it, and I'm trying to figure out in my brain how long it will be before a change occurs.

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I'm white but I would HATE that. I have definitely heard about the black man culture of white women being "trophies" or more desirable than women of color. That is such bullshit.

In one class, it was suggested that black men's misogyny is partially from black men being demasculated by white men historically and feeling like they had to regain their masculinity. And apparently white women were a way to move up in society. But lord it's time to stop devaluing black females.

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