I bought the LilyCup Compact off of amazon and I got it right before my period. I read the instructions and was a little intimidated but didn't think  it could be that hard. Now I am bleeding. 😫🌹 and I can't figuring the darn thing out! I tried both fold variations on the manual. I have relaxed my jaw. I have used cold water. I have literally tried every time I go to change my tampon. I even tried in the shower this morning. It won't go in!😩 it pops open but is still hanging half way out of my vag. Like not just the stem, the whole cup is hanging out. I can't hold it together once the top is in guess. I have watched every tutorial on YouTube. But they just talk about it not popping open once inside. Girl I haven't even gotten that far yet, rewind. 😩 I'm tempted to go see my gyn and have her help me. But that would be weird. Any tips?? Please!