Why can't women just stop being so judgemental towards other women? If you don't breastfeed you're not less of a mother than one who does. Your baby isn't going to be much different than a baby who gets the boob. I'm a breastfeeding mother and this is seriously my biggest pet peeve. I would never put another mother down as a person just because she chose formula, or because she couldn't give the boob for whatever reason. That baby is getting fed, so honestly why does it matter? Why do you women who knock others down for this care so much?