Responsibilty. 😡
I'm currently a stay at home working mum. I'm on maternity and i'm due back at work mid June. I will be extending my maternity for a further 4 weeks which will be unpaid (i will use my savings to cover my bills & hubby will help). Anyway the reason i'm extending it is because i'm getting married beginning of July followed by my honeymoon so if i returned i would have to take leave again and they're not very keen on that! Anyway, what i'm pissed about is the fact that my hubby doesn't take no where near enough responsibility of our child. I have him all day every day. Yes he works 5/6 days a week and i won't ever ask him to do anything when he's just go in from work (not that he would offer or do anything anyway). But i let rip last saturday because he had been in work all day then proceeded to go out with his mates, get pissed and leading to me having to call my mum to watch the baby (he was already asleep in bed so no way in hell i was disturbing him for that dick). Picked his drunk ass up and went in on him for not helping me out.
Anyway monday come and he goes to work comes home and goes to football. Same thing tuesday. He had a day off wednesday but because he's up at half 6 every day (so am i because baby is always up at that time too) i let him sleep in. Then thursday he goes to work comes home then goes back out to the cinemas. And now today he's gone to work and is leaving early to go down to see his mates, watch a boxing match and chill.
Where as i can't remember the last time i had an hour to myself to even have a bath by myself. Yes i know i'm his mum and i love my son more than anything and anyone but even i deserve at least an hour by myself for sanity. I'm lucky he sleeps through because i don't think i could deal if i was even up once in the night. Just annoys the shit out of me that if i want to go out or do anything for me without baby i have to ask him to watch our son and half the time it's like we'll i've been in work all day it's stressful i need to come home and relax. So then he gets to do whatever he wants and i'm always always doing everything for the baby. Don't get me wrong i go out with baby in the day to see his mum and his bro's and sis's or go shopping with baby. So i don't care that he goes out, just would like him to maybe ask or offer .. i'll have the baby you go get your nails done or have a bath. I even took baby with my to get my hair done which i will never again. Sorry if you've read this far but just a frustrated mumma! ❤️
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