Different Parenting Styles

Have any of you ladies dealt with your SO or baby daddy having an opposite parenting style to you? For example; I avoid pacifiers and use as a last resort for soothing, but my hubby will use it first just to quiet the baby. Or, even more frustrating, I don't believe in the cry it out method at 10 weeks of age, but my hubby is perfectly content listening to a screaming baby. How do you deal with the wildly different styles? Does it affect your relationship?