I can't be the only one who gets disgusted with the way some women on here talk about Arab men and tell the girls dating them they'll never be a priority, they will never be married or accepted by family.

My man is Palestinian and I am Puerto Rican but looked at as most black... I've met his mother, father, siblings, cousins, nieces, nephews, aunts uncles, childhood friends and boss all within a year.

I handle and managed his money, know his whole government name, am listed on a few financial documents, was given his SSN, I have access to his parents home, have his parents and sister phone number, invited on family vacations / get togethers and so on.

Currently carrying his child and his sister is planning our baby shower while helping pick out names. I can even be found in family pictures, me / our relationship and our child has never been a secret... His father actually encouraged us to move in together two years ago and to actually do things the right way (marriage).

We had a fight and my man showed up to a family event without me, his father told him to go back and get me I belonged there not at home.

When me and my man are not on speaking terms he told me it doesn't matter what terms we're on I'm always allowed at his parents house or to call them.

Its been days I was pissed and didn't talk to him for days (we still lived together and he still came home on a set time) but I would be at his parents house talking and joking with his mom and sister.

No we're not married, we don't want it to seem like we just got married because of me being pregnant with our daughter... Still one day he came home and randomly said

"you know its not haram (forbidden) for us to marry out of our race or a Christian woman"

this I knew but also showed me where his head was at.

They have a family vacation coming up he declined to attend his response "I have a family to take care of and my daughter is due any day now"

Our daughter would be mixed but he and his family consider her Palestinian, just like his brothers two children who are half Somalian, or the other 3 that are half white from his eldest brother.

His parents from the first year they met me were all amazing and said "oh we have to teach you Arabic so you don't think we're being rude" I was shocked when we went out to eat for his fathers birthday and he introduced us all as his children "every single one" he said 😊

Point being its wrong to tell a woman that she'll never be accepted especially if she is black and all Arab men are the same.

Mind you his parents were not born here they we're born and raised in Palestine

(I won't list the city for privacy reasons)