how to deal with a miscarriage?

Question

I lost my lil squirt around my 5th or 6th week of pregnancy.... I'm hurt I feel like it's my fault but ik it's not.. how can I deal with this 😪😔

Answer

I've had 2. The second didn't affect me as much as the first. The first I lost at 4 months it was a girl. My Katie Kat. The second I was only a month or two along. There's no time period for grief or healing. Talking about it helps. I've found it's easier to talk on here than in real life. I took 6 months with my first. I told no one and kept to myself. I broke up with the father. I let my family think that was the reason I was crying. Had nothing to do with him. I'm still with him. 4.5 years. Most people don't get it. How you can be so attached to someone you've never met. They want you to get over it. You take all the time that you need. I made my peace with God, that she's ok and he's got her. You will always think about them. When they would have been born. When you conceived. When you lost them. Mother's Day and holidays. When you see little kids you wonder what they would have been doing at that age. The worst is baby showers or having to shop for one or pretending you are happy or others announcing they are pregnant it's like a knife to the chest. Time passes. The more you talk about it the better. It gets easier. Things happen that are beyond your control. We don't know why. But they just do. From car accident to cancer. We don't know why but they happen. You can't blame yourself. I know it's hard. Maybe some therapy or support group. Journaling may help too. I send you a hug. Take all the time you need.

how to deal with a miscarriage?

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