My husband and I have been together for over 3 years and married for over 2 . He finally said he wants a baby which I've been waiting for , for 2 years . I took my arm implant out on Tuesday may 16th 2017 a day after he said he was ready . ( he requested me to take it out asap ) . We've been talking more and more and we'll have unprotected sex for the next few months with him pulling out , if I get pregnant than yay but we won't officially try until he feels we are 100% okay . By this I mean in everything because we argue and fight a lot he wants us to have the best relationship possible before bringing a baby in . So today on Sunday may 21st we bought a small unisex baby blanket and little blanket pal kind of as an " engagement ring " but for a baby . Does that make sense ? So it feels realistic and not having my hopes up for nothing . It's a huge symbol that we need to be stable together and that we're doing it for our future little boy or girl . Our first baby purchase for our baby . Hopefully I'll be pregnant or have our baby this time next year (: