Should I let it go that I gave my fiance my virginity but he was with 14+ girls before me?

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This bothers me a lot. How do I cope?

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Just look at it like, it took him 14 different tries to find the woman he was suppose to be with, however it only took you one! 😊 he asked you to marry him not them, so yes let it go its the past and your his future!!!

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You have to leave the past in the past or move on. You can't hold onto what he did before he knew you. I know it's hard.

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Did u not know this before you lost your v card to him?

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Not his fault he didn't meet you till later. Plus you can't change the past. Just get over it and move on. What he does from here on out use hat counts

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Well you are planning on marrying him, so yes you should let it go. Not sure why this is really a question it was in the past and if he's going to marry you sounds like the only person he cares about and loves is you, not his past partners. My boyfriend has had more partners than me, at first it was disappointing to hear, but after a few minutes I thought who the hell cares he's with me now.

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You need to leave the past behind you. I was my husbands first but he was my second. It took him a long time to get over it. But he did and we're very happy :) it's something you have to talk through.

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That was my exact situation a few years ago. I struggled with it for a while, but things are great now! As long as you're the last and only one he has sex with now, there's no need to worry. We all have a past!

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Let it go! I don't even know how many girls my fiancé has been with... And I don't want to know. He doesn't know my number either

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Sadly something that is inevitable is someone's past. My ex boyfriend had been with 35 girls before me and he was my 2nd. It bothered me for the longest time but I had to get over it. Also I learned this from his best friend.. Not him. He lied and told me 11 but I knew better than that. But I found this out after I had slept with him. Go figure.
But I am now with the love of my life and I made his fifth and he makes my 3rd :)

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I'm number 53 on my mans list. I knew about it before I got together with him. I dunno why it'd bother anyone o.o

Should I let it go that I gave my fiance my virginity but he was with 14+ girls before me?

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