not sure how to feel???

A friend of mine is ttc also, and I'm excited and happy for her but she's going to her preconception appt soon and has only really been ttc for 3/4 months but is going to tell the doc she been trying since her last miscarriage which was in last year in June. I told her 6-12 months is normal time frame but I think she's looking for the doc to give her something, like clomid or something to help her wit ttc process im kind of annoyed wit her about it. Am I wrong? I just don't think it's fair. 🤷‍♀️