So just to get rid of some unwanted stress while ttc, ok so when I met my SO his ex had just found out she was baking a bun lol 😂 anyway she seemed nice, we hung out. I took her to check ups if SO couldn't get day off took her shopping I guess you could say friends we spent a huge amount of time together just us. Never really with SO as he just wanted to relax once home from work. So things where good, then the wee man is born things are fine we pay child maintenance see his son (myself and SO had bought a house by this point) got him cot pram clothes etc as you do... bought stuff for her house because she didn't work and didn't have it. That wasn't a problem to us. It was beneficial to his son. Then we decided to ttc and he asked me to marry him. OMG things just fly off the handle with her. She cuts contact with his son starts been aggressive towards myself and the children. 20-30 phone calls a day 60-100 message, damaged the cars got violent towards myself ( this has happened twice) moves house sells all the things we bought, refused to tell SO where little one lives. Won't let him give him a kiss or cuddle when we pass her. Flowing myself and my friends around for hours, tells everyone he's not the dad (DNA confirmation he is) says I'm stopping him from seeing his son. Refuses mediation with SO about contact. Saying he now has to have supervision from her and can see him for one hour every two weeks at her mums house with her mum sister and her there. (SO is no risk to his son nothing has ever happened to him while with us) SO has seen his son (have photos) with black eyes huge marks across his face and hand prints on arms. SO son went missing for two hours and his mum didn't know. SO baby momma has new bf been with him 8-16 weeks and SO son is calling baby momma new bf dad. Refused to give SO son his Christmas and birthday presents has to argue with her about it. Rings child maintenance and his work (SO is military) saying he hasn't paid so we have to send prof over and over. Baby momma was saying disgusting things about my children (children dad sorted that wasn't pretty😔) now is telling people he walked out on his son and doesn't want to see him (we applied to court for contact order 4 months ago just waiting for hearing) she rings the police every time I'm in town (my doctor is there plus friends) saying I'm watching her (crazy) I'm in my car and 90% of the time I don't even notice her 🤷‍♀️ also still has the cheek to as us for more money because she has non and child needs things. Refused every offer our solicitor has sent her, even using a contact centre. The child is in wet dirty nappies for hours, out in the rain and cold no coat or shoes and no rain cover. I'm just so mad 😡 she is a disgusting human being and think her behaviour is appropriate. There is so much more but I would be here all day, am I wrong for hating this women now and just wanting to bitch slap her into next year 😝 I've never been disrespectful to her, it's just not me. But I want to lol (child maintenance is 448 a month) this is what we pay her. 😡😡😡😡😡😰 rant over