I've been fucking my ex since April 3 (my birthday). We broke up in the beginning of the previous November, mainly due to his emotional instability due to a previous relationship. Yet he is still the kindest person I've ever met in my entire life. it's been so convenient to just hit him up whenever I need to relieve some tension because it's comfortable, and also we have finished at the exact same second every time we've hooked up for over a year. I know because of his issues, I'll never feel the same as I did before, completely head over heels. We promised to fuck regularly as long as we weren't leading one another on. My dilemma is that I do care sooooo much for him as a person and want to see him eventually overcome his melancholy perspective of relationships, not with me necessarily. just in general, I would love to see progress, but I don't even know how aware he is of all of this and is just unknowingly stagnant . I want to bring it up, but also don't want to put it out there and him freak out that I'm interfering or think something differently. communication was always a problem for him. should i stay quiet? should I risk losing him again completely? we have a really good, casual thing going at the moment. I just want what's best for him....

p.s. if you have negative remarks, please don't even bother commenting...... thanks