THEN after a bit of spying online, actually on a family member of his' facebook account, I found out he has a long term girlfriend and possibly a daughter (to me it looked like a family photo of the three of them)! I hadn't heard of this relative before but they tagged him in an image so I went through their photos just to work out what relation they are and that's when I saw the image. The photo I saw was from early 2016 though so I couldn't really tell whether it was a current relationship he was in. So of course I mention this to him and he ignores it so I mention it again and he tells me it's his sister in the picture. So I leave it but I'm still not 100% sure about it, so I go on the "sisters" page and she has many posts regarding him referring to him as her fiancé, but it seems as if she has changed her account to private since I can only see posts up til late 2016, after that all I can see is profile picture updates. 

So I'm absolutely shocked and now I screenshotted it to him and said "what is this? Have you got a fiancé?" he won't reply to me at all, each message is read but I get no answer. 

How can he do this! And surely I can't be the only woman? I feel bad for the woman involved but even more so I feel ashamed I let myself be fooled by this man. I don't really want to be a homewrecker and start sending her screen grabs of everything especially as I sent naked photographs to him. 

Tell me ladies do good guys really exist?