Have you ever been asked out on a date or to a dance? I have never been asked out on a date or asked to dance. I went to all my high school dances alone and ended up just sitting there since all my friends had dates to dance with. I don't know why I went. I am married, but I was always the one to ask him to go out, he never asked me. I am 20 and he is 23. I really feel like he just settled, because now our relationship feels like it's tanking.