Unfriend

🐵🦉🦖🦊 • SAHM 🧒JEC 5/12/11 🧒CIC 3/20/14 🧒IJC 3/25/16 👼JRC 9/7/17 - 5/31/18

So a friend of mine and her husband unfriended me on facebook. Idk why but they kept my husband as a friend. Nothing has happened we haven't even seen them in forever. Everytime wed try to make plans with them they'd cancel last minute. Last time I tried to see her was at my 3 year old and 1 year olds bday party which was March 25th. I invited them to come. They said they were coming but never showed up. That really was the final straw for me. I decided to stop inviting them to stuff or to hang out. My oldest had his 6th bday party May 13th. I didn't bother inviting the friend. Idk when she even deleted me. Anyways I figure if they don't want anything to do with me then that should extend to my husband too. Maybe it's petty but I was gonna ask my husband to just unfriend them and be done. Is that silly?

I'd like to add she was my maid of honor. Other than to snoop I don't see why she'd keep my husband as a friend. If she's done with me then I think she should just be done. It's not about my husband having different friends than me. We have all kinds of different friends it's just the circumstances. This hurt me and I'd just prefer my husband take her off. I haven't even talked to my husband about this though

More about her. We were close friends. She got pregnant with her 1st and I got pregnant with my 3rd at the same time. We were 5 days apart. Things changed for us quickly. I got sick with HG like I did with my others. I was taking zofran and she wrote me a long text telling me how bad I was for taking zofran. She said I was hurting my baby and I just needed to try something else. Mind you at this point I was about 10 weeks pregnant and had already been sent to the hospital 3 times for treatment even while taking zofran and another med. Then she text me a long message telling me I was hurting my baby because the vitamins I was taking weren't good enough. I ended up just telling her I was following my Dr's orders and I wouldn't do anything to hurt my baby. After ranting and raving that I was hurting my baby I found out she started taking zofran as well for sickness. I got a little giggle out of that. She stopped coming to bday parties and celebrations I would have and invite her too. More than once shed sya they were coming not show up and then post pics on facebook of them doing something that day. She would cancel plans with stupid reasons like my husband and I are fighting or I forgot I need to take these baby clothes to sell them. I texted her about 2 weeks before her sons bday and during that conversation I asked her if she was having a party for her sons 1st bday. She said no and then about a week later she posted pics of his bday party. Which hurt me pretty bad. After my 2nd and 3rd sons bday party she text me like 2 days later asking if we could hang out. She didn't say anything about missing their party. I asked her when and the time just wasn't working for me. For whatever reason I'm not aloud to be around when her husband is home. So it ended on her saying we'd have to figure something else out some other time. Then she deleted me. It's been a lot of confusion for me. I've tried to talk to her but she always says everything is fine. I guess I just have to decide it's for the best. Thanks for all the comments and advice. My husband completely understands my hurt and wanting him to delete her.