So I'm 8weeks and 5days &I have been keeping the pregnancy a secret as I had a miscarriage in February, I have have a big family (8 siblings) and my partner has 3 siblings, last time we told our immidiate family because we were took excited and when we founded out there was no heart beat it's hurt me more having to ring each and every family member and tell them :( so anyway this time I wanted it hush hush, I obviously told my mum &a dad and my partners parents, but didn't want everyone else knowing, I decided to tell my younger sister as she was having a really bad week and I wanted to cheer her up and usually she keeps quiet about stuff, I also told my brother because I was having my nephew stay over and wanted him to know in case anything happened he'd be able to come pick him up on short notice, all was well untill my partner told his sister, her boyfriend, his nan & grandad, then my family started opening their mouths and eventually everyone knew without me telling anyone!! It's been stressing me out because of anything happens this time I know I wouldn't be able to ring around and tell them any bad news, I just feel that the element of surprise has gone aswell, like it was out news to share and yet we've not had the chance to properly share it as we won't be putting anything on social media at all because I'm high risk and don't want to have to tell the world if anything happens, so the only chance we had to share it was to our families and that's been taken away from me, been stressing about it all week & crying like mad 😪 Did anyone else go through this or is it only my family that's feel like ruining all the fun? 😞