just a pet peeve

I can't stand when I tell someone what I'm hoping for (gender-wise) and they say "healthy is most important"
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Obviously...... When did I ever say "I don't care if my baby is healthy as long as it's a girl/boy?" 😐 
There's nothing wrong with hoping for a specific gender. Them being healthy is a given and I shouldn't have to use that as my answer when someone asks what I'm hoping for. 
Rant over lol 
I know it's petty I just had to say it.