I definitely don't want a full on baby shower like I had last time for my son. He's only 16 months old, so all of his stuff is still great! (Thank goodness) if it's a girl, we'll obviously need clothes, but I've been thinking, if anyone wants to put some kinda party together, all I want is food. Haha freezer meals, restaurant gift cards, crock pot things. Stuff like that. I just remember that being so difficult in the beginning, and it would make my life so much easier to have that stuff beforehand. 2nd time or more moms, what kinds of things do you feel like you still need?