So I had a close friend, Michael, come to stay with me and my mother in November. Ironically, the day he moved in I had another close friend over, Donald, for the first time and it turned out both liked me in an overly friendly way. I only turned 15 in January, which I know is young but please don't discriminate. Donald and I dated a little in November and December then he broke up with me because he didn't like that I kept sticking up for Michael and taking his side whenever either one got jealous or Michael did something wrong. Well I guess he realized that he fucked up, but he tried again and I finally said yes on February 8th. We've been friends for 3 years and it didn't really effect much, we had a kinda "friends with benefits"(minus the sex) thing going for that time if neither was in a relationship. Well this past Friday when I got home my mom told me I needed to start taking baths in her bathroom instead of mine and I didn't understand why. She finally told me that there was a drill bit and round metal file under one of Michael's dressers and there was peep holes going into the shower pay of the bathroom from the room the toilet was in (we didn't notice because we've had plumbing problems in the past so a portion of the wall is missing right there to see the plumbing.) And another hole he started that was going to go into my bedroom from the bathroom. He got kicked out that night and Donald is very very mad, to say the least. Both boys are violent and have jealousy issues. I'm dealing with this best I can, I haven't seen Michael since Thursday night because I made my mom take me to Donald's so I didn't have to see him. Then she told me today that there was a third hole she didn't tell me about the size of a quarter where a missing tile was.. Donald really wants to do something about it, (Michael lives walking distance from my house) but I really hate violence. I know that if the two ever bump paths it will be very bad, but am I in the wrong for not wanting him to hurt Michael? I mean, what's done is done. Can't do anything about it now. I know this is long but I just needed to talk. Any opinions would be much appreciated. Thank you!