I've tried solo work, we've done the thirty minutes of foreplay, we've tried light BDSM, we've tried oral and all these other things that we've read you're suppose to try and I still can't orgasm. It's getting to the point where he feels sad about it and I get upset and feel like I'm not a complete woman or like I'm fucking broken. Sex is getting boring and it's in part to the fact that I can't orgasm. How do I fucking spice this shit back up and make him feel better about the whole situation