self conscious.. any suggestions?

I'm 16weeks and slightly starting to show. I've always been overweight and super down about how I look in clothes. Well I really wanna wear shirts to show off my little bump cause it's really exciting to have a bump and not just look fat plus it's getting a lot warmer out so I can't hide in sweaters lol but my  back fat is really holding me back. I feel like that's the only thing people will see. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to tame the back fat? This may be silly to some but it's really getting me down.