So I lost my virginity about 3 months ago and since then I haven't had sex until me and my boyfriend did so about 2 days ago and during it I didn't feel any pain but about 30 minutes in I started to bleed and after that I kinda got swollen after and we tried something last night but it's still kinda tender and idk what to do I won't be able to see a gynecologist for a couple months and I just wanna know if this is normal or if it happened to you what did you do?