I'm a first time mom I have a 3 week old baby girl. I breast feed her and try to be super patient but she cries a lot. I know newborns cry a lot but whenever she's done eating she's calm and relaxed for a while and then starts being fussy and starts crying. I check her diaper I burp her I hold her but she doesn't stop crying until I put my boob in her mouth again. Other times I hand her to my mom when she's crying and almost immediately she stops crying and just stares at her or looks around or just lays on her chest calmly. Is it possible for a baby to hate their mom? Is this normal behavior? I've read it could be a growth spurt but I want some opinions from other moms. What do you do when you can't calm your baby? Sometimes I feel helpless..