Advice needed

So I've dropped the news to my mom that I'm 4 weeks pregnant and she's absolutely distraught! Can't stop crying and can't eat! I'm 23 years old I was just wondering has anyone experienced anything similar? Like will she come around?? Also any tips to destress??? Xx
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Je

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Yah she will come around . Wait till baby is born she will love being grandma and wonder why she was ever so emotional about it . You're old enough to take care of baby :)

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Niamh • May 28, 2017
I'm also a preschool teacher so she's knows I'm tuned in with kids! I'm so afraid to tell my dad I can't even explain xx

Te

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She'll come around 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

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Teara • May 28, 2017
You are an adult . I feel that if you live your life trying to make sure they're happy 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️......... she'll come around . Give her time to soak it in . It's going to be ok

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Niamh • May 28, 2017
She's so upset she won't even talk to me 😢 My dad still doesn't know either!

Ar

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With my first child 3years ago when I told my mum I was pregnant she acted like someone told her she had weeks to live. I was 27 married and have my own house and we both have good jobs so don't get her reaction at all. anyway she came around but I never I couldn't be bothered with her after that and things haven't been the same since. With this pregnancy I didn't even want to tell her cos I couldn't be bothered to see her horrible miserable face so my husband told her and I walked out the room. It affected me more and I try to keep her away from me and my family now. Very sad 

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Arieann • May 28, 2017
I really hope she comes around. My mum loves my little boy and there relationship isn't affected. I didn't like the way she handled it that's why I'm still annoyed with her over it

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Niamh • May 28, 2017
Well I'm 23 and live at home. Myself and my partner and engaged and both have full time jobs. She's telling me she's heartbroken but I just can't see what's so bad about it!! I don't want our relationship to drift either 😢

Sa

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Does she not care for the father? 

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Niamh • May 28, 2017
She's equally not looking forward to my dads reaction