He must not be into to me... Right?

Question

So... Long story short. I met this guy about a year ago... (Let's call him James.) James told me he just got out of a relationship, and he did not want anything. I waited around for 2 months and met another guy. (Let's call him John.) Me and John dated exclusively for a while... Then, broke up.

After he and I broke up, James came back in the picture. He calls a few times a week. We'll flirt. And, we will go on dates occasionally. He still says isn't ready to date... I say okay, and end up trying to create distance between us. He'll start texting me everyday, to make sure I don't go any where.

I'm confused..  Bc he says he first want anything, but then he can't seem to let me go. Note: we've never had sex btw.... He isn't that into me... Right

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He doesn't want you but loves the idea of you "desperately wanting him". It's the sign of an immature little boy and you need to just move on. Don't give him what he wants.

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Trying to keep you hanging on by a thread. That's alllll a game girl. If he wanted you he would let you know it very clearly. Those men aren't worth your time. Trust me, I've had plenty of them. When you find the right one you'll realize most of the others are fuck heads.

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He probably is into you, but not the way you want him to be. If he said he doesn't want to date...that's what he means. If you don't want the same things, then it's doomed before it began. Try to keep your feels in check, and even remain friends if you think you can manage without catching feelings. But if you can't, then tell him that...you really enjoy his company and his friendship and don't want to lose him, but you need to put some space between because you don't want to develop a crush or feelings knowing they won't be reciprocated. He should understand...and frankly, if he is into you, that would he a prime opportunity for him to say so.

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Maybe he just wants to keep you on the back burner in case he doesn't find anything else? Idk. Just keep doing you and be civil to him, let him make a move down the road if he's ready.

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If he's not trying to be all sexual then maybe he's into you but wanting to built up a friendship first? If he is being sexual then drop him cuz he's a fuck

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When a man wants to be with you, he doesn't act all wishy washy like James.  I'm used to guys being direct. If he says he doesn't want anything serious, don't read anything more than that into his actions.

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He is loving the attention. Don't get hurt by this guy. You like him and he knows it. For all you know, he may be interested in others but he knows damn well he is guaranteed your attention. You are better than this. Find a man strictly devoted to you. I don't like the sound of this guy. He may be a good person but his intentions as far as dating don't seem to stable right now. I'm not saying this to discourage you, but I'd hate to see you hurt in the long run. Be cautious of him. He may very well be interested but I don't know. I don't like his ways here.

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Agree with her ^^^ immature.

He must not be into to me... Right?

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