WHY DO I FEEL THIS WAY AFTER 'IT'

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I was at my boyfriend's house last night and he started getting horny, so I played along.After 20 minutes we had sex.i've never done this before, but I think he has(he seemed like a master)I really want to do this again, but I don't want to get caught by my parents,I am sixteen after all.WHAT DO I DO IF I GET PREGNANT?!😱😱

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If you're calling see "it" then you should not be doing "it".
I sure hope you used a condom. It only takes one time to get pregnant. 
When you do get pregnant.. you be an adult you think you are and raise that child you laid down to make.

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First! Learn about consent! No if, ands, or butts about it. Both people have to agree and say yes. Next, be free to talk through and say what you both like and dislike openly. Last but not least, wear protection and get tested regularly. As for wanting to do it again, it's normal, and the beautiful thing about sex, you have to get a lil creative. Good luck!

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If you're going to have sex, you should consider getting on birth control. Is there a planned parenthood or other health clinic in your area? They can help get you on the pill if you don't want your parents to know.

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If you're going to continue to do it at least be smart enough to go to the free health center and get on birth control and condoms

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What a shame

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You shouldn't be having sex

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Btw, don't worry about being 16 and having sex. As long as you EDUCATE yourselves.

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Get on bc. Use condoms and spermicide. You should be doing homework instead. And for good godsake stop calling it "it" or you are too young for sex.

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3)  Find a method of birth control that works for you, but remember that birth control never works 100% of the time, so it's important to be consistent if you're taking the pill, and know when in your cycle you are ovulating if not.  Also, unless you're in an exclusive relationship with your partner, condoms are always a good idea, even if you're on a hormonal birth control, because STDs can pass very easily even if there's no chance of getting pregnant.  Hormonal birth controls can sometimes be harsh on the body, so read up on all your options and pick the one that's best for you.
4)  Last but not least, consent.  Make sure whoever you're being intimate with gives you consent, and you give consent to them.  This doesn't have to be saying 'I am consenting to _____ with you', which can be a bit of a buzzkill, but encouraging each other in your activity and giving positive feedback shows continual consent.  If you ever become uncomfortable with a situation and want to stop, it is of the utmost importance that you make it VERY clear to your partner that you want to stop. Don't leave them room to have to guess if you want to stop.  If they don't stop after you've established that you no longer consent to what's happening, that is rape and you should absolutely report it.  No one deserves to have their consent taken away from them.

I hope you take these things to heart and make smart decisions about your sex life.  Good luck and have fun!

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Congrats on having a good first time!  You've made a very adult decision, and that's okay!  But here are a few notes now that you've had sex.

1)  Get comfortable with the terms.  Sex, orgasm, penis, vagina, masturbation.  No need to beat around the bush, if you will.  Using those terms is mature and it allows you to communicate better when you're talking about it to your partner, a health professional, or a mentor.  Also there is nothing wrong with masturbating.  Learn about your body, have fun with it!
2)  Communicate!  If you really like something your partner did, tell them!  If you're uncomfortable with something, tell them.  If a healthcare professional asks you a question about your sexual health, be straightforward with them.  This communication will lead you to have a healthy and fun sex life.
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