Today, I found out after 18 years of marriage my parents are getting a divorce. They are beginning the paperwork tomorrow. They've had issues for the last year but have always made it seem like they were working it out. I just never thought it would actually happen. Am I being ridiculous for being so upset? My husband basically acts like it's not a big deal and I should just "suck it up" (his words) and doesn't understand why I'm so upset. I feel like he's being inconsiderate of my feelings and can't begin to understand what this feels like .... I'm 27 years old, married with kids, and have a life of my own, but this is hitting me so hard ...