Naming your baby, is it selfish for me to want this to be only for my partner and I🤔

Rowley
A bit annoyed if I'm being honest. We finally found out we are having a boy and I've been so excited to share this special decision with my partner. I was excited to talk about it and giggle about ideas..... only later to hear him on the phone with his mom asking her what she thought about this name....excuse me, is this not something that WE decide and later share with the family! Maybe my prego emotions have got the best if me, I just felt betrayed 😟😟😟