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Marriage Arguments 😔

Laycee • Mon, May 29

My husband and I got into an argument tonight. I love him so much but TTC has been putting so much stress on our marriage. When we first started dating I got pregnant at 19. First time having sex for me and I was on the pill and I got pregnant! I ended up miscarrying our little girl at 23 weeks. A year and a half later we got married and now a few years into our marriage we are trying to start a family and nothing 😭

I get faint positives for a little bit and then complete negatives! I haven't had AF since February 15th 😔 so tonight we got into a huge argument with all the built up stress and he told me that it's my fault we don't and can't have a family. That I was selfish and didn't take care of the baby while I was pregnant at 19😔 He knows how hard that was on me. I lost my scholarship into law because I had severe depression after the miscarriage.

After he said that he realized how low that was but it hurts so bad because it's the truth😔 I can't get pregnant now and what if that was my only chance to have a baby at 19 and I screwed it up.

Sorry I just really needed to vent.

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