I have two beautiful daughters they are almost a year apart and my boyfriend and I decided we would pick a kid and change their diapers. I picked the baby and he pick our older girl. My 1.5 year old is potty training so I change her. My boyfriend picked my 2.5 year old but she is potty trained already ( thanks to me) and has been since she was 14 months. He feels now that I should be wiping her butt and cleaning her potty chair and not him because she is no longer In Diapers so do you think I should be doing both cleaning her butt and potty chair as well as changing the daughter I originally pick when we had two in diapers or do you think he should be still helping me by cleaning the potty chair and my oldest butt?(like he originally said he would)