When is the right time to have the talk about if your going to get married or see where the relationship is going and how do you do it? I tried with my current boyfriend and he just starts talking about somthing else I've been with him for 3 years and our relationship is the same as when we started? Maybe its my fault for not saying somthing sooner to him?? How do I know if this is all that he wants a girlfriend? He's 33 years old and I'm 28. You would think we would be engaged?