Ttc and wedding stress

Rebecca
Hi I'm becka and I'm new here. The first posti looked at was have you looked at your vagina? Slightly odd for a first read
​So I get married in 21 days and my fiancée and I have been trying to conceive for about five months. 
​I was on bc for about four years and stopped in December. My periods have been getting farther and farther apart, with added cramping and tender breast when I didn't have those before. :(
​My last period was about six weeks ago and it just started last night. I'm kinda sad that I'm not pregnant but I just looked at my fertility window for next month and it starts two days after I say I do, so maybe I'll be saying is to two. 
​Anyway, I just thought I would say hi and addy story to yalls. 
​Have a good day.