We. Are. All. Different

We are all different. No two babies, pregnancies or "bumps" are alike. This doesn't mean you're better, worse, healthier or unhealthier than any other stranger on the internet. You are not too big or too small unless your doctor has given you a legitimate reason to worry. The woman at the grocery store or your mother/grandma/MIL are just saying things because they like the sound of their own voices. You are growing a human and it's weird but you're supposed to feel weird and not yourself. There's an alien inside you. You can see it's hand sometimes through your own damn skin. This is normal, but it's a new normal and that is often weird. But you're doing it. Okay? Focus on just doing it vs all the comparing things that simply cannot be compared. 

Let's just take that in and give ourselves a hug for growing a human this long without committing a homocide (thanks Hormones)!