Maybe I'm being extra sensitive and emotional. But my husband and his "needs" have come second due to my EXTREME FATIGUE (I have lupus) , my CONSTANT sciatic pain in both legs, and handling my 4 yr old all day. +(migraines, back aches, little to no sleep every night) . SOMETIMES he's understanding but most of the time he makes me feel bad for not physically being able to / wanting to have sex. I feel bad, but I definitely need the comfort and intimacy although we don't have sex as often. Today in particular, my pain and exhaustion after this LONG full weekend, after I carried luggage in (while he slept) he wanted sex. I literally fell asleep on the floor unpacking and had CRAZY sciatic pain. He's passive aggressively upset Bc of my denial... I'm emotional now and just want to vent and cry and just want to be held and massaged. Lol am I crazy?