sticky (and sensitive) situation

My husband's mom and sister are so excited for our baby and has offered to babysit some times when I go back to school. Problem is that my husband's dad got arrested for having and distributing child pornography of very young children. (Also can't be around children under 16 years old or he'll go to jail) I'm 29 weeks but haven't had a single conversation with my husband or my husband's mom about how I will NEVER allow my child there while he is there. I don't even want them to suggest that I just stay in the same room while I bring my daughter over. I don't even want him to look at her or have any access to pictures of her. Of course besides this situation, my husband has always looked up to his dad and I don't know how I would talk to him about my feelings on the situation. 😓