Babymoon!?
Hey ladies! I'm just curious if anyone else is going on a babymoon this summer and what activities you are planning. My husband and I originally planned to travel to the carribean prior to finding out I was pregnant and we have now changed our plans to travel to Hawaii. I leave in three weeks for a ten day trip. The only problem is that We combined half of this trip with my father in laws birthday trip. So now for half the time I will have my sister in law and her husband and my father in law there which is fine. My sister in law is insistent on planning ALL of the activities which I was grateful for because it was one less thing I had to do. But now I feel like she is planning stuff that is just completely off base for a person who is 20 weeks pregnant. I'm talking about scuba diving, cage swimming with sharks and a ten mile hike. She is also planning all the meals which include a great deal of sushi and nightclub/bar type environments. her solution to me being pregnant is that I can sit the activity out but that means considerable time away from my husband on our bonding vacation.
How can I be sensitive but straight forward and explain that I need to rest. She has struggled with infertility and I always hesistate to say I can't do something for fear of hurting her feelings. Am I being to sensitive? Should I just let them all enjoy themselves and do my own thing?
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