lying men? ladies what is your take on this

Jo
I know technically this may not pertain to this topic but I am a bit concerned due to my boyfriends constant lying. I will sustain from calling him a pathological liar but he will literally lie about anything and everything. I can ask if he shut the window and he'll say "yea" although he didn't or he'll tell me long tales of things that have happened just for me to figure out days later that it was all false. He used to lie about bigger things such as where he's gotten money and why he'd be missing work or even his past sexual history...which I thought we had grown passed (he's working full time and saving for our baby on the way). I just wanna know has any female delt with a man who has honesty issues? How and what did you do? I have spoken to him numerous times on how I don't appreciate the lies and games because they seriously confuse me and increase my trust issues dramatically. He claims he's "playing around" when he lies but it doesn't come across as playful just confusing and disrespectful. I hate feeling like he doesn't believe I will catch on to the truth although I always do. If he lies to me about small things - I wonder what else he is lying about. Its not solely me - he lies to his family also. The scary part is when he lies about a grand issue - he will believe his lie with all his might and make me feel idiotic or wrong for ever questioning him...I don't know what to do or if I can even trust him alone with our child - will he tell me they've been bathed or fed when they have not? Any thoughts? Please no harsh criticism to why I'm still with him. He has changed dramatically within our relationship and is as responsible as ever! But the lying...will it never end?