This is probably where I piss people off. But it depends. Slurs? Yeah. That shit pisses me off. But if it's a joke that isn't malicious and doesn't perpetuate any hurtful or rude stereotypes or opinions? I can handle that without getting upset.

I think it's okay to sometimes not take life so seriously. It's okay to sometimes say 'yeah, okay, I'm a white girl and I have no rhythm!' (because I am and I don't)

So I think intention matters a lot.

But no matter the intent, if something someone says is hurtful or upsetting to you, you have every right to point it out and explain why it is problematic. That's how we learn and grow.

Does it tick you off when you hear other people making racist jokes/slurs? Even if it's not directed at me it makes me feel angry.