money woes

Ok so I would never say anything like this usually to anyone but my husband has just said to me he wants to end his life of run a way, we are hard working but just can't seem to catch a break, we got married last year but my husbands mum feel ill before the wedding resulting in him having to take 4 months off work (money we are still trying to catch up on) we do everything by the book but still can't seem to get ourselves out of that hole, i lost my own father last month and I'm trying to keep emotions in as I no how much pressure he is under but I just feel like it's always us everyone else seems to dance through life around us, is there anything I do on the side to make some extra money for my family, any suggestions considered - literally any at this point 😞 thanks for reading