I live alone in a small country town and I've recently developed feelings for a local man I met through through work. I feel like I connect with him so much more than anyone else I have met here and it's just come to light that he feels the same way and we hooked up the other night (no sex though). The only problem is I'm 23 and he is in his 50s. His wife passed away almost 10 years ago and his only daughter is away at boarding school. I think we're both a bit confused as to how this came about...