so i have hair on my ass cheeks and idk if its common or not. its not horrible but its noticeable that i have hair there. anyway my boyfriend doesnt like hair we have been sexually active for a month or two and i told him and he said he doesnt care about it but last night i forgot how we got to this conversation but we got to like if i shaved my ass and like at first he was saying it as a thing to try but now hes saying that not that my ass was never appealing but it would be more appealing if i shaved it and it kind of upsets me because iv been insecure about it my whole life and i want him to like it the way it is but hes like "i just dont like hair, and if you didnt like something on me i would shave it for you" but i think thats the wrong way of doing things like i love all of him the way he is i wouldnt want him to change something for something i dont like