my relationship is a disaster 🤦🏻‍♀️

ladies i need an advice please ... we have 8    years together 1 kid ... 2 mcs...  but this year things are getting worse and worse everyday ... we talk but it seems like is not helping at all i dont want to continue with this relationship there's no comprenhension , no trust (no me ) i trust him even that he cheated on me a few years ago... he works till 9pm he comes late but everytime he comes home he start making comments like ...- you dont tell me everything - or you are acting weird - or like when im not home you fix your eyebrows , take a shower etc i mean is frustrating 🤦🏻‍♀️ i dont even go out just yesterday that o went to eat luch with my daugther she is in kindergarten 🙎🏻 like really? i just put eyeliner  thats it 🙍🏻 i dont know what to do i told him i dont want this anymore but he dont understand 🤷🏻‍♀️...