I'm feeling lost

I'm on a very long cycle about 58 days and that's because I'm on the pill. so anyway my AF is 3 days late for about a week now I have been feeling dizzy, sleepy, nipples hurt like crazy and cramping like I would get my period I missed about 4 pills last month right around the time I should have ovulated. 6 say later I had some bleeding. I have no clue what it would be. also I have had people asking when I'm due lol and my 4 year old is rubbing my stomach, my cat is very clingy. I don't know if I should test or wait it out.