Hair thinning/Hair loss

♚NAS♚ • Born in South Africa.. happily married.. 2 baby boys under two years.
Okay so .. my hair is super thin .. and not from now. I've had really nice hair when I was young. As I got out of my teen years my hair just went sooo thin .. recently I've been losing alot of my hair. I can't tie a pony tail too tight cause the hair just breaks. And my husband is always picking my hair off of him .. i insist my hair loves him! But not just on him.. on the bed. On the floor .. the pillows.. i just lose balls of hair every day.. i know youre suppise to drop a certain amount of hair everyday. But this is just ridiculous ... i dont know what to do anymore.. I've tried oiling my hair. Hair fall shampoos. Cutting my hair .. well my husband is so eager to shave my head! Lol he says it works best. But obviously I don't want a shaved head. Any ideas or thoughts on this? .. tips? .. home remedies?... anything will be helpful! Thanks!