As you can see, I've a huge selection of bows for my 4 month old daughter. Shes my Princess. Most times I bring her to my in laws I leave a bow off her even though I love them on her. Every so often I forget to leave it off her when we visit, and on thodr occasions (today esp), my father in law goes on and on and on about how im squashing her brain, and his new one, you'll stop her hair from growing! For fuck sake its a bow man. She looks beautiful. She's growing so fast and im sure as shes older she won't want to wear bows so im making the most of it! I already feel like im shite at being a mommy, do you really need to lecture me on how im squashing her brain every damn time? Sorry for the rant, figured its better to do it here rather than snapping at him, as my husband never steps in and says something to him and anything I say gets ignored!