Opinions on symptoms... Could I be?

Hey just wondering if i could possibly be pregnant? I had two BFNs over the past 5 days... But I just had sex and it was painful. I cramped afterwards. This has NEVER happend in my 6 years of sex with my fiancé. Didnt do anything different either. I am 5 days late for AF and my cervix is high and soft. I know I can get a blood test and find out, but I just want your opinions. I'm going to try to wait till Thursday to test since my others were negative.  I maybe ovulated late and Thursday would be my 14 day mark. Thanks ya'll!!