Gender reveal!!

Tiffy • Gave birth to a beautiful baby girl🌷💕🎀💝 Madisyn Mirai 😘
We find out the sex of the baby the end of April. We're planning on having a gender reveal party with close family, but they're convincing me not to find out and be surprised. They all want to know but want me to find out at the party? Do you guys think it should be the other way around? I do personally, besides I'm anxious to know the sex, and can't wait until the party which were planning to have in May.