First time sex tips? Ahh

Hey there. I have a question. Does your first time having sex hurt? I heard many controversial answers,
Some said it doesn't because they were comfortable others said it hurt so bad they bled and brought tears to their eyes. I ask a lot of my gals who are not virgins as well as my older sister but answers vary too much. Does it hurt? How much? And is it somewhat pleasurable, or did it get better the more you experienced it. Thank you! I would love any feed back.