First time sex tips? Ahh

Question

Hey there. I have a question. Does your first time having sex hurt? I heard many controversial answers,
Some said it doesn't because they were comfortable others said it hurt so bad they bled and brought tears to their eyes. I ask a lot of my gals who are not virgins as well as my older sister but answers vary too much. Does it hurt? How much? And is it somewhat pleasurable, or did it get better the more you experienced it. Thank you! I would love any feed back.

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Like your friends and sisters said, every vagina is different.

My first time hurt a little. The penetration felt as if there was like a stingy feeling but it went quickly away. All I experienced for the first moments was pressure until he got carried away and started thrusting his dick deep into me and hitting my cervix. That's when it began to hurt but only when he hit my walls. It was the pain thay felt so good and I wanted to go all night long after I got used to it.

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It depends a lot on the person. I had a friend who told me that it didn't hurt, but when I did it for the first time it hurted a lot. So it might hurt you or it won't, you'll find out at the moment. Thank God it's just the first time or sometimes the first few times, not always :P I did bleed a little but is completly normal.

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I lost mine at 15. It didn't hurt, but I did bleed the first couple times. Just relax. It will be fine. The only thing is make shure you what to do it 100%

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Yes it its painful but as long as he is gentle and goes very slow for a few minutes its fine! It take's a few times of having sex for you to be 100% OK with it. Take a hot bath after to as sometimes it cramps after xx good luck and be safe xx

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I lost mine when I was 16. And yes it hurt for the first 2 times I had sex. Almost brought me to tears but it got better. But everyone's body is different.

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So I just lost my virginity about a month ago, and for me it really hurt. I only bled a little bit it definitely hurt a lot. I love my SO and so I was able to focus on the intimate part of it but it wasn't pleasurable for me. Lube is very very important and I've never really fingered myself so I was very tight. I've masterbated but really only the clit so I've never had anything up there until I had sex so it was a lot to take at once. And if your hymen isn't broken that will also hurt as well. I recommend going in slow and then slowly trying to go deeper but every time it hurts just stop and kinda just let him stay inside you and stretch you out. We would go in and then wait and then pull out and then go a little deeper. Idk that was just what I did haha:/ it worked pretty well because my the end of the night he was able to go all the way in and brake my hymen. It takes a few times and then it stops hurting. Just use lube!! The position that worked the best for me for the first time was when I laid on the bed sideways with my but off the end and wrapped my legs around his waiste while he stood up next to the bed and leaned over me. Hope that helps! Goodluck!

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