I love to either encourage my husband to cum while he's inside of me or else to command him to hold off ejaculating until I tell him. It's either "cum for me, baby!" Or "fill me with your seed!" Otherwise, if I want him to hold off I'll tell him he can't ejaculate until I tell him to. Of course this is part of our love banter. Do you ladies verbally encourage your partners to to ejaculate or to hold off on their climaxes until you give the ok for them to have their release?