Sexless relationship problems

I'm in an LDR. My boyfriend and I see each other one weekend a month and schedule our visits around my cycle so we can be intimate. (He refuses to go anywhere near my vagina if there's even a slight chance he'll be exposed to blood).

Problem is, we don't have sex! If I'm lucky, I can get it once. And when we're not together, he'll ignore my sexts. I send him nudes, talk dirty... and all I get back is "nice." Um...my body is amazing, thank you!

He assures me he's into me, just not in the mood often and not a fan of sexting. So that leaves me with almost no sexual outlet. If he had ED, I'd understand, but he treats my need for sex like a chore. What do I do? (Besides myself, cause I do that often😶)